How Do I Know If My Boyfriend Husband Partner Is A Narcissist?

Recognising #narcissistic behaviour in a partner can be challenging, especially because narcissists are often charming and persuasive, particularly at the beginning of a relationship.

Narcissists can think they are superior to others.

Here are some signs that your partner may be a narcissist:

🚩Excessive Need for Admiration: Narcissists crave constant praise and validation. They may frequently seek compliments and become upset or angry if they don't receive the attention they feel they deserve.

🚩Lack of Empathy: Narcissists often have difficulty understanding or caring about the feelings and needs of others. They may seem indifferent or even hostile when others express emotions.

🚩Sense of Entitlement: They often believe they are special and deserve more than others. This can manifest in expecting preferential treatment and becoming angry or frustrated when they don't get it.

🚩#Manipulative Behaviour: Narcissists are skilled at manipulating others to get what they want. This can include #gaslighting, #blameshifting, and using others for personal gain without consideration of their feelings.

🚩#Grandiosity: They have an inflated sense of their own importance, abilities, and achievements. They may exaggerate their accomplishments and expect others to recognise their superiority.

🚩Difficulty Handling Criticism: Narcissists often react poorly to criticism, no matter how constructive. They may become defensive, angry, or dismissive when their behaviour is questioned.

🚩Interpersonal #Exploitation: They may use others to achieve their own ends, without considering the cost to those people. This can include taking credit for others' work or manipulating others to do their bidding.

🚩Lack of Accountability: Narcissists rarely take responsibility for their actions. They often #blame others for their problems and failures, and refuse to acknowledge their own mistakes.

🚩#Control and #Domination: They may seek to control various aspects of their partner's life, from social interactions to financial decisions. This control can be exerted through #manipulation, #threats, or #coercion.

🚩#Envy and #Belittling: They are often envious of others' success and may belittle or criticize those who achieve what they cannot. They may also try to undermine others to feel superior.

🚩Emotional #Instability: They may have sudden mood swings and react unpredictably to situations, often displaying a volatile temper.

🚩#Superficial Relationships: They tend to have shallow relationships that are based on what others can do for them rather than genuine connection. They may lack long-term friendships and have a history of short-term relationships which form a pattern.

If you recognise these behaviours in your partner, it may be helpful to seek support from a mental health professional who can provide guidance and help you navigate the situation.

It's important to prioritise your own wellbeing and consider the impact of the relationship on your mental health.

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I'm Aimee, a #MentalWellbeingCoach specialising in supporting females who are recovering from domestic abuse.

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